Unlike the previous post, I do not intend to dwell on the importance of appreciating the little things but rather, suggest an alternate perspective as to why our elderly counterparts seem so much more contented than the majority of us today.
I noticed that my elderly friend dished out plenty of life advice today.
- Importance of delayed gratification (“You will have plenty of time to play in future.”)
- Gratitude (For the smallest of things)
- Importance of stepping out of one’s comfort zone (To learn / improve in a language)
I find it curious that the aged amongst us consistently seem to abide by these principles far more than any other age group. Why is it that generally speaking, our elderly can be contented with so little or seem so stoic in the face of hardship? Indeed, scientific research has shown us that the elderly’s wisdom is not just empirical but proven in the way they utilise their brain[1]. Having a wealth of experience certainly helps as well[2].
On the other hand, some may say through induction that our elderly were simply used to living with less, that the simple cravings of the elderly or their joy in having a little company each day is a result of a hard life lived throughout. Others would point out that in comparison to their current living conditions, any form of help is a blessing and will be duly appreciated.
While these points are valid, it still did not seem to justify my friend’s contentment for she has travelled the world, embarking on a 1-month long cruise trip. She has experienced the good life and as the saying goes, “Once you have tasted the sky, you will forever look up.” – Leonardo Da Vinci
Hence, I believe that the aged are associated with wisdom for they are the only ones who know the true value of time[3]. At the end of their lives, they are not disillusioned by plans for the future nor do they incorrectly assume that they have plenty of time on their hands. Their outlook of life may seem to be pessimistic, but I believe it is simply being realistic. Conversely, many if not all of us, live our lives having some grand plan for the future, if not for the next few years, at least over the next few months. And don’t get me wrong, this is perfectly normal and beneficial for all of us. It would be awfully disastrous if we lived each day without rhyme or reason. However, as we work diligently and contribute meaningfully as cogs in a machine known as society, it would be great if we paused momentarily, just to be more grounded and thankful about the miracle of having yet lived another day. This may seem strange, especially if we are in the trenches of life right now but take it as a pro tip from the true pros in life.
“The trouble is, you think you have time.” – Jack Kornfield
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